Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Why I rant...

I've been asked why I don't get on with, and why I occasionally rant about women and feminists.

The answer is - purely - they usually deserve it. I find what they say infuriating, along with the refusal to debate and the personal attacks they make to be hugely aggravating.

Disagree and you become a misogynist - and things go downhill from there.

But why do they deserve it? They say things like this...
Women have contributed more to the expansion of the world economy than either new technology or the emerging markets of China and India
This just takes my breath away. More to the economy then technological improvement.

So women have contributed more then the economic value of agriculture? Or the ability to make fire?

Both of those are "new technologies" - without which we'd still be stuck in caves. True, I'm being a little silly there. Let's stick to new technologies within her lifetime.

How about advances in computing and electronics in the last 54 years - since she was born. I've got more computing power in my desktop then existed in the world for about half that time.

Put together.

That is part of what I find infuriating - they say silly things like that and expect you to accept it.
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(I'm not going to go into the question of "Why didn't she directly compare the economic growth of men and women? Why cherry pick this part of the market....or that part of the market...not a useful overall comparison?)

21 comments:

Anonymous said...

I challenge you to write a post ranting for women instead of against. no negatives.

Anonymous said...

Please do not post my name as I do not want to upset anyone I know with this post.

'Women have contributed more to the expansion of the world economy than either new technology or the emerging markets of China and India'

They are absolutly correct in what they say, just in a completely different context to which they infer.

The way they achieved this was by having children.

No I am not putting them down, I am just agreeing with what they said. Also giving an example of how they did this, which they failed to do!

Born Today said...

Anonymous - I could argue that men made just as critical a contribution. Someone had to father all those children.

Good point though.
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The problem with that Isabelle is that there is no group of people who stand up and claim to speak for and about men, in the same way that feminists claim to speak for women.

So trying to find something to rant about would be difficult...

Anonymous said...

the reason for this born again is that men never had to defend themselves for their basic rights. most society have always been patriarcal and men have had higher statuses. so no they didnt have to fight for most of their rights.

and to claim that there are no groups who stand up for men that would be wrong ... father's rights groups. because "fathers are just incapable of caring for children on their own." "I dont understand why you would fight so radically to get to see your kids"

And plus if you cant even make an argument for women .. then in previous posts , stating that you are all for equality would be wrong. because obviously your not

Anonymous said...

also see...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Men%27s_Movement

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Father%27s_rights

Born Today said...

"And plus if you cant even make an argument for women .. then in previous posts , stating that you are all for equality would be wrong. because obviously your not"

I'd disagree. I find it very easy to find feminists so easy to rant about is because they make claims in public forums that sometimes lack grounding in reality - such as the new technology quote.

It's immediate, obvious and clearly not entirely accurate.

In comparison fathers rights groups say such things as "We want to be able to see our children". "The presumption should be shared parenting". "Mothers should not automaticly win custody of children".

I find it hard to rant about such comments because they are very hard to disagree with.

More to the point I rant about what I observe - and I haven't seen such groups in the news media all year.
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Will post seperate comments per point - it's easier

Born Today said...

"he reason for this born again is that men never had to defend themselves for their basic rights. most society have always been patriarcal and men have had higher statuses. so no they didnt have to fight for most of their rights."

The reason men don't stand up and say rather silly things in public forums is because they're never had to stand up for their rights.

Well, l'm going to disagree there. Let's look at the most basic right - the right to life.

During World War Two the military started as a strictly volunteer force which proved to be woefully lacking in numbers.

So if you happened to be male, of the "right" age and fit you won a prize - the chance to go be shot. Which I suppose was better then the first world war, with the horror of being gassed.

I could go on - the refugee crisis in Darfur. Many thousands of women starving to death, being attacked. But the men - their husbands, sons and the like - are already dead.

Both men and women have rights. In most of the free world we have broadly equal rights.

We have the right to speak our minds.

We also have the right to be laughed at for what we say.
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Actualy, I have a "pro-women rant". Will post it later. You won't like it though...

Anonymous said...

women didnt fight in that war because they were seen as lower and not aloud to fight even if they wanted to go and save the poor men.

Born Today said...

So you're saying hundreds of thousands of men were sent to their deaths because they were seen to be superiour.

I'm sure that thought would comfort them as they lay dying.

Born Today said...

Actualy, as memory serves there was a group of women during WW2 who gave white flowers to young men who weren't serving - as silent accusations of cowardice.

I remember listening to an interview of one man who aquired a military uniform to wear during the day so they would leave him alone.

He was a firefighter in london during the worst of the blitz.

Anonymous said...

And soo all women should be judge based on one group of women who handed out flowers to make the men feel bad?

just like we could say all men beat their wives based on a group who do... no!!!

and stop saying things i didnt say , all i said is women in canada were fighting to have the right to go to war and werent allowed to go.

Your country was lead by men at the time decided men should go to war, so wait men take decision for men and men are unhappy... hummmm ?!?! the problem lies with men. men probably decided they didnt want women to go either.

Anonymous said...

I guess ur at DnD tonight , will ttyl when you get back... if im out, the weather is so nice and the snow is almost all gone :D

Anonymous said...

new post pls

Anonymous said...

Did heroic instance last night, killed most bosses with a group of only 4 players. If we had another player along then we could have done it!!!

I was the healer - and I'm not specced to be a healer :D

If we had a priest who could have helped with removing posions then we could have completed that instance!!

Anonymous said...

It's a shame no priest (shadow or otherwise) can do a damned thing about poison...

Anonymous said...

true, shadow/normal priests cannot do anything about posions, but they could put a heal over time on everyone effected so that I had a chance of getting everyone de-posioned in time...

Yes, I know that shadow priests loose 10% damage when they do that - but better a dead boss giving nice loot compared to a wipe.

Anonymous said...

The AOE posion occurs when the boss gets to 75%, 50% and 25% health, so you stay in shadow until at least the 1st occurance of the posion aoe.

Although during that run, I only needed the help when we had the 2nd AOE posioning, as that is when he calls aload of snakes that annoyingly attack the healer - this delays the deposioning and healling process. So when we get to the 25% health left stage most players are at half health and I have no chance of saving the party!

Anonymous said...

"Yes, I know that shadow priests loose 10% damage when they do that"

Nope.

They loose 15% immediately and their +crit percentage to all DoTs as well as some other effects...

So on Ao right now, we're talking 23% straight damage drop right now.

Anonymous said...

Senario:
Your group just wiped on a boss that does AOE poisioning each time he looses 25% of his

health, and at 50% health he calls loads of snakes that the warrior has no chance of

picking up. You had got him down to 25% but the last set of AOE posions is just too

much...

Don't forget:
a) Your in a heroic, and the only healer you have is a retri paladin who has healed for

all the instance successfully except for this 1 boss.

b) Your tank is a druid, so he has no AOE based agro abilities so he cannot grab the

critters unleased at 50%.

c) Instead of having 5 people in the group, you only have 4 as noone else wanted to go.

d) This is the heroic daily quest boss.

e) the posions are deadly, dealing enough damage to kill someone whos on half their

health.

Q. you get the boss down to 50% again, he's just put a powerful AOE posion on the whole

party and last time you wiped on the very next stage (25%) as the healer cannot

de-poison and heal everyone in time...

What do you do?
1) continue dealing your damage and hope this time its different, and the healer will

heal you and everyone in time, even though he has loads of critters hitting him....

2) put heal over time spells on everyone, to help counter out the amount of health lost

to the poison giving the healer a fighting chance to heal everyone before the boss hits

25%. Even though this means you loose 1.2k from your 5k mind blasts and your dots do

less damage.

3) die and start blaming the healer again!

4) run out the instance screeming and healing yourself, letting the party wipe!

Anonymous said...

If that's the instance I think it is, did you consider using the corner trick with the door to avoid the poison nova?

Anonymous said...

We did, and it didn't work